Dog-allergic bride forbids sister's dog from attending her wedding: '[She's] framing me as the villain for "excluding her baby" from my big day'

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    AIO for telling my sister her dog can't attend my wedding? family/in-laws
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    two sisters sitting on a couch in a middle of a fight or dispute, one sister on the foreground lifts her hand and looks away dismissively, the other sister in the background looks desperate from explaning herself
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    So, my sister has been insistent that her dog absolutely must be at my wedding. I have severe allergies to dogs, and the venue has a strict no-pets policy.
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    woman allergic to a dog that sits next to her as she blows her nose
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    I explained both of these things calmly, but she completely blew up, saying things like, "If my dog isn't there, I won't come. You're ruining everything!"
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    two sisters in a fight or dispute, one lifts her hand dismissively and looks away, the other tries to talk and get her attention
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    The crazy part is, she keeps bringing up her dog in every conversation now even when we're discussing seating arrangements, flowers, or catering.
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    She's been texting our family non- stop about it, framing me as the villain for "excluding her baby" from my big day. I've tried reasoning with her, offering to
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    help her arrange a dog-sitter or even set up a live video for the ceremony, but nothing seems to work.
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    dog professional picture, he wears a black bow tie
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    The rest of my family is divided some say I'm completely justified, and others think I'm being unreasonable. I feel like I'm
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    in the right, but the way she's acting is making me question myself. The stress is mounting, and I'm honestly worried about how this could affect the wedding day itself.
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    [deleted] ⚫ If you're allergic and the venue doesn't allow pets what exactly are you supposed to do anyways? It's a dog she can stay home with it 16
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    woman points at herself with both hands as she looks to the camera in a smug expression
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    Top-Talk864 · Try to look at it this way. This is YOUR wedding, right? That should be all you have to think about. 853
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    bmw5986 ⚫ NOR. As far as I can see here it's been decided. You're allergic, the venue had a firm no pets rule, and she's said if the dog isn't allowed she isn't
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    coming. Seem simple to me. No dog means no sister. So mark her down as a no on your guest list.
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    Let her know she will be missed and let it go. As in, let everyone know she's decided that if the dog can't come she wont either, and due to the
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    above reasons the dog can't come. So she's not expected either. She will be missed. You will share photos and video later. 8 53 ها
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    chihuahua formal picture, the dog wears a huge red bow tie
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    Soy_Madness ⚫ not overreacting at all. your sister is being so strange about this I wonder if she is having a mental lapse? Maybe your
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    wedding is too much for her and she's acting out. It is NOT normal to bring dogs to a wedding. She can pay for a dog sitter or
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    she can totally not go. one of my sister's didn't go to the other's wedding. whatever, it is your day not the dogs day. 833
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    Actual-Potential-3 • NOR she's being very inconsiderate. You're allergic, and the venue has a strict policy. It's just for one day.
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    Surely, she can just have a dog sitter take care of the dog? Is this her emotional support animal or just a regular pet? Either way, she's being selfish. 82 ↑ 2 ♡ ...
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    taro-milk0_o • NOR. How could you be unreasonable when the venue won't allow it? It's quite selfish and inconsiderate of your sister to prioritize her dog over her own sister's wedding. Maybe it's best if she stays home with her dog. ↑ 2 ♡ ...
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    DreamOfZelda · I mean you could leave the sister at home with the female dog if she also wants to be one 8 2 ♡ ...
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    Latter-Computer9080 ⚫ Your sister has main character syndrome. She seems to have some kind of agenda regarding the dog needing to be at your wedding. She has
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    no consideration for your allergy or the no pets rule at the venue. It's your wedding, you get to choose what you want regardless of what your sister wants. If she chooses
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    not to be there that's up to her. Are all your other family members who are divided aware of your allergy and the no pets rule? You are not OR. I hope you have a wonderful day with or without your selfish sister. 823
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    Normal-Site-5194 ⚫ Sounds like you sister needs to stay at home with her dog. Problem solved. Don't give it another thought. ↑ 1 ♡

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